1. Watch your language.
Children listen to what we say. If we go on and on about how much we hate going to the dentist or what a horrible dentist we had as a kid, this will obviously scare a child. Then when you tell them that it won't hurt, you have no credibility.
2. Don't tell them, "It won’t hurt."
The truth is that it won't hurt, especially if it's an initial appointment when only visual or x-ray examinations are going to be done. And as far as your child knows, "Hurt" had nothing to do with it, until you brought it up. Think of it this way. When you go buy your child shoes, or get their hair cut, do you tell them that it won't hurt? Of course not, because 'Hurt' has nothing to do with it. And that's the way we want it to stay. A child should never experience pain at the dentist, and adults should never even bring up the specter of it. Once you bring up the word "Hurt", then the child thinks that in some way, or some how, pain is part of the equation.
3. Be watchful over what their siblings are telling them.
Sometimes older siblings like to tease younger ones. Sometimes they cannot resist the temptation to use a trip to the dental office as a tool to tease their little brother or sister. This can have a devastating effect on a youngster.
4. Lead by example.
If you go to the dentist regularly, and have a good attitude about taking good care of your oral health, your child will pick up on your example. For this child, a trip to the dentist is a matter-of-fact happenstance and will be "no big deal".
Most children are treated by Dr. Acosta and his staff without any problems. However some children may need a little more help due to fear or behavior problems. In these cases Dr. Acosta has a great network of pediatric dentists who can meet the rest of your child's needs.